Tip: AOL only knows of blind-carbon-copied recipients if you were one (and knows nothing about potential others). To match emails Bcc'd to you, select yourself in the "Bcc" dropdown.
Tip: unfortunately, you cannot select "Trash" as destination folder, so pick "Spam" as alternative to automatically delete certain emails (they'll be out of your inbox anyway). Select "New Folder" to make a target folder: it won't create it every time the rule runs.